Are You a Nice Guy?
I know so many guys that do everything a girls wants. They buy them flowers, chocolates, call her, take her to nice places, rub her feet….(Im not saying you shouldn’t spoil her once in a while) And at the end of the day she ends up with her legs up around some pool boys shoulders, nailing her on the coffee table next to the flowers you bought her. Feel good- for him YES!

Too many guys, especially those trying to meet their perfect girl are Nice guys… in a sense they keep trying to pull a girl towards them, by buying them stuff, calling them all the time…. which in fact pushes the girl away.

Then these guys pick up “The Game” (a book about picking up girls by Neil Strauss- A famous Pick Up Artist) and read how to play hard to get and learn how to neg a girl (Insulting her to throw her off guard). What happens next is that they completely over compensate and keep pushing the girl away. This does no one any good.

Getting Higher Value With Girls
Its commonly known that to pick up a girl you have got to have a higher value in her eyes…
So there are 3 methods to do this

1) Bring her down to below your level (negs etc)
2) Raise your level above hers
3) Raise her level, but raise your level slightly above hers.

I like method 3- Because quality girls are attracted to it. This is not a routine and its not something you can be taught… it comes from social awareness.

To have sex with a girl, you have got to make her feel like a lady… you need to make her feel a feeling of warmth and sexuality… this comes from being charming and confident, not from routines.

What is Push – Pull and How Will It Get Her Into Your Bed?Push pull is whereby you emotionally push her away then emotionally pull her back, like a yoyo!!!!

It comes down to pushing her away a little and pulling her back when she does something you like. Think 2 steps forward 1 step back. There are so many analogies… if u give a dog a biscuit then take the biscuit away more than once the dog will keep following you around. If the dog sits, reward it, next time it will sit, no problem.

(I am by no means calling girls dogs! …but you get the picture: reward good behavior – girls are just as clueless as anyone else, they need to know what you like and accept.)

Next time you are with a girl seduce her, think Casanova (watch the movie)…. give them a hard time but at the same time have an underlying message that you want to pleasure them and you just can’t help your instincts….

If you take anything away from this: treat her like a real woman and she will respond like one.

In our next article we’ll cover HOW to reward your soon-to-be Cinderella (and stop her turning into one of the cruel sisters)

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