Let me start by describing a “perfect 10”. A perfect 10 is not only a 10 when it comes to looks, it goes deeper, it means she is smart and amazing inside and out. Certain pick up tactics will allow you to pick up normal 10’s… but others allow you to pick up Quality girls. Some of my thoughts and Ideas may not work on certain types of girls, but personally I’d rather not pick up a girl if she is not quality! You learn very quickly when you get good at pick up, that looks alone mean nothing!

Just this morning I had a chat with one of my girl friends. We went for coffee (It wasn’t a date- but here is an article on Good Coffee Dates) at this cool little shop around the corner and we discussed the happenings of the weekend (Including me man slapping some punk), and I decided to share some of her valuable insights. Trust me you want to read this!

Let me start of by describing her just so you get a feel of what type of girl this is coming from. She has the most beautiful blonde hair, light blue eyes, she is tall, with a banging body (she is a typical Swedish looking girl) – without a doubt a “perfect 10”. She is consultant with a Maths Degree… so we are talking smart and sophisticated, but also extremely cheeky.

She is the type of girl that will tell you to go to hell is you try Neg her, or she will insult you back even worse. I have seen countless guys run away with their tails between their legs. Opening her with opinion openers will never fly, trust me I have seen countless guys try and fail.

But luckily for you she just described to me what does work. There is no doubt that picking up Perfect 10 is different to a “normal 10”, Perfect 10’s have brains on them and want to meet quality guys (or Real Men)!

So with that I want to add to my standard Attraction model CCC. Call it CCCC. Cool, calm, Charming and Confident.  I’ve written enough about CCC in other posts so I want to focus on the Charming side.

“All the guys that get somewhere with me, are really charming, they make me feel important. It’s also important that their body language is good, it makes me feel like they aren’t hitting on me, or trying to hard” ~ Holi

How she likes to Get Opened. “I really love your shoes” or “I really love your dress”. Her reasoning is that she spent a lot of time and effort picking them out, when you complement her it makes her feel good about herself. It’s Direct enough to let her know you are interested, but indirect enough to not make her feel too threatened.

One girl once said “I went out with this guy and I thought he was amazing, but then I went out with another guy that won my heart, the difference is that he made me feel like I was amazing”

I’m by no means saying be a Wuss and keep complementing a girl and trying to hard. Don’t say “I like your shoes” then “wow your belt is amazing” then “You have the most beautiful lips” this comes across as insincere and desperate. If its just one thing after the next.

Quality girls like charming guys. There is nothing like a well placed complement. But mix it in with good body language, lean back don’t invade her space.

We deal with all the details around being “charming” in our E-Book (Being released next Year) as well as our free news letters. Sign up for free. Or Check us out on Facebook.

Peace,

Baron Bloom

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