Let me start by describing a “perfect 10”. A perfect 10 is not only a 10 when it comes to looks, it goes deeper, it means she is smart and amazing inside and out. Certain pick up tactics will allow you to pick up normal 10’s… but others allow you to pick up Quality girls. Some of my thoughts and Ideas may not work on certain types of girls, but personally I’d rather not pick up a girl if she is not quality! You learn very quickly when you get good at pick up, that looks alone mean nothing!

Just this morning I had a chat with one of my girl friends. We went for coffee (It wasn’t a date- but here is an article on Good Coffee Dates) at this cool little shop around the corner and we discussed the happenings of the weekend (Including me man slapping some punk), and I decided to share some of her valuable insights. Trust me you want to read this!

Let me start of by describing her just so you get a feel of what type of girl this is coming from. She has the most beautiful blonde hair, light blue eyes, she is tall, with a banging body (she is a typical Swedish looking girl) – without a doubt a “perfect 10”. She is consultant with a Maths Degree… so we are talking smart and sophisticated, but also extremely cheeky.

She is the type of girl that will tell you to go to hell is you try Neg her, or she will insult you back even worse. I have seen countless guys run away with their tails between their legs. Opening her with opinion openers will never fly, trust me I have seen countless guys try and fail.

But luckily for you she just described to me what does work. There is no doubt that picking up Perfect 10 is different to a “normal 10”, Perfect 10′s have brains on them and want to meet quality guys (or Real Men)!

So with that I want to add to my standard Attraction model CCC. Call it CCCC. Cool, calm, Charming and Confident.  I’ve written enough about CCC in other posts so I want to focus on the Charming side.

“All the guys that get somewhere with me, are really charming, they make me feel important. It’s also important that their body language is good, it makes me feel like they aren’t hitting on me, or trying to hard” ~ Holi

How she likes to Get Opened. “I really love your shoes” or “I really love your dress”. Her reasoning is that she spent a lot of time and effort picking them out, when you complement her it makes her feel good about herself. It’s Direct enough to let her know you are interested, but indirect enough to not make her feel too threatened.

One girl once said “I went out with this guy and I thought he was amazing, but then I went out with another guy that won my heart, the difference is that he made me feel like I was amazing”

I’m by no means saying be a Wuss and keep complementing a girl and trying to hard. Don’t say “I like your shoes” then “wow your belt is amazing” then “You have the most beautiful lips” this comes across as insincere and desperate. If its just one thing after the next.

Quality girls like charming guys. There is nothing like a well placed complement. But mix it in with good body language, lean back don’t invade her space.

We deal with all the details around being “charming” in our E-Book (Being released next Year) as well as our free news letters. Sign up for free. Or Check us out on Facebook.

Peace,

Baron Bloom

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So I decided to put together my own kind of “rules of the game” except they are real rules, that willl actually help you. In the Book I’m currently writing (a book on Dating and attraction) and I have summarized some of the Key Principals to creating attraction within a girl. With a special section called: Barons Rules for Getting the Girl of your Dreams. 

These are a few of Barons rules to create attraction!

• Don’t Be Desperate.  There is no attraction killer like desperation. NO MATTER HOW SWEET YOU ARE- If you are desperate. You will never get laid, unless it is by a $1 Hooker. For example- Don’t buy a girl flowers until you are either dating her/ sleeping with her. If you do it before then- It will come across as you are trying to hard and trying to buy her love.
• Take her out with your friends. Especially when you just meet her. Your Friends are people that love you, and will higher your social value.
• Have fun, people like being around people that have fun.
• Don’t be afraid to offend a girl. (I’m not talking about insults/negs here)  People respect you for having your own opinion.
• If a girl wants to see you she will make the effort, don’t chase lost causes.  If you ask her out and she um’s and ah’s. Leave her; she is not worth the effort.
• The more you show a girl you don’t need her the more she will want you.  Be independent, most guys come across as so needy. Have your own life and she will want to be apart of it.
• Be hard to read. When you first meet a girl NEVER let a girl know what’s going on in your mind. This drives a girl crazy (in a good way). Being the strong silent type can go a long way.
• Be laid back…  CCC (Cool Calm Confident) it’s important to have good body Language and to be relaxed. There is nothing more unattractive to a girl than a guy who looks nervous or unsettled.
• Never show jealousy.  This is a hard one- but girls test guys by trying to make them jealous. Its Important to realize that they are doing it for a reaction. If you don’t give her the reaction she wants it will drive her crazy! 
• Don’t be predictable. SMS or call her ONLY when she doesn’t expect it. If a girl knows for certain that you are going to text/sms her everyday she will get bored. Rather let her wonder why you aren’t contacting her.
• Be confident with whatever you want… if you want her to come to your house don’t be shy. If you are confident she will be comfortable/
• Be a gentleman (girls love this) Open car doors, pull out her chair, give her your coat, etc.
• Body Language makes the world of difference. If you lean in too much- she will get the idea that you are chasing her, rather lean back and draw her into you.

You don’t want to sit and memorize these rules, but the main Idea behind them is that you need to build your own reality. It’s ok to be a man and know what you want. Girls will respect it.

Peace

Baron Bloom

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Let me start out by saying: there are a couple of good products out there right now already on this exact topic, if you’re interested:

• This is an epic facebook pick up course (to my knowledge the only course on online pick up out there). It’s like $2 or something, but it’s pretty informative, and had a bunch of things I’d never have thought about.
• This one is an epic eBook on using Twitter — I use the term epic in the sense of like an “epic” journey. It’s really really long and a little dull, but never seen anything else like it, and it’s totally free so I had to let you know (not sure if I recommend their dating course though, but hey, I’m slightly biased…)

Having got that out of the way: I do have a couple of points – my advice here would be (without writing my own ebook…):

1. Be different and pique interest with a great image. Not something stupid and poseury, but something a little quirky that shows your personality. Funny is good, but don’t let it look like you’re trying too hard.
2. Your bio is important. It doesn’t have to be long (my personal account is VERY long, but it works super well I create tons of value between my images, girls commenting all over my wall/status and photos, and my funny bio). It’s great to be funny – but reflect your personality veiled in humour. Mine talks about things I actually do love and am, and things I care about without getting too serious. It’s a juggling act, and you should fiddle with it (even the best copywriters in the world spend hours and hours editing!)
3. Don’t look like you’re trying. So: cover your tracks. Show some things to give the impression you aren’t hiding yourself (like if you comment on photos) but hide revealing things (like if you comment on walls).

4. Get people commenting on you. You can’t exactly tell them to (well I’ve seen some people ask questions in statuses, which usually fails, and if you ask for comments that almost definitely will). So, what do we do? You want to Like their stuff. Social networks are ALL about making people feel special – so give them compliments, make them laugh, and offer them value. Like their stuff. Comment on their walls / photos.
5. And (my favourite), direct message them. So, you either want them to write something on your wall (which you’ve provoked with a comment on their wall, photo, status, or a Like) and then you pick up that conversation in DM, or you want to begin the conversation in DM.

   Your 1st DMs should be SHORT! This is key! Long = pressure, long = creepy, long = guy thinking too much, perving. Long = bad. Short is good, it was “just a passing thought on impulse”. This is especially true if you initiate DM without her writing on your wall.

   When you reply, your reply should be shorter than hers (tone is important too, but that’s another topic!), or at very most 1/2 lines longer if you’ve got something great to say. Keep it punchy – short, simple sentences, quick questions, etc.

6. Capitalisation and grammar – In my experience using caps and proper punctuation makes little difference. Do whatever you’re in the mood for then. (There are probably girls who this does make a difference with, but if you know she’s an English Master’s student, you’re probably on top of this.).

   Grammar on the other hand is slightly more important – you don’t want to look like a retard (I know when we text each other, guys I mean, we sort of short cut things – I love a 3/4 word text with my buddies – don’t do it with girls.)

   And DON’T use txt spk online, or l33t 5p34k either! (or that losery 14 yrs old girl thing with mixed-caps: “HeLlo” I’m sure you’ve never done that though, have you…?)

Go find me on FB now – here’s my link: http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100000104019978

Couple of questions though for you:

1-  Do you add girls you’ve never met on facebook (i.e. just checked out online)? What do you do & with what responses?

2-  Have you ever scored a girl BECAUSE of facebook? What was your dating strategy?

(I’ll tell you mine, if you tell me yours…)

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I love it…!

This is a must watch!

Megan Fox - what a hottie

Things to watch out for (besides Megan Fox):

• Check his body language (relaxed, confident)
• Check his use of facial expressions (He almost always has a straight face- even when he is talking about a hotel for cats)
• Check how he keeps a straight face and just keeps quiet if one of them says something dumb.
• He ignores Megan Fox
• He over exaggerates everything the guy says
• He was able to create attraction and hook Megan Fox while talking about a dog,a cat hotel and one legged penguins.
• Strong confident hand gestures.
• He doesn’t try and fill in all the silences.
• He controls the interaction.

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Getting girls to your place, is always a bit of a tricky question, Its possible to fall into 3 categories when you ask a girl over.

1. Needy and sexually frustrated
2. Like a sex freak Player (or chance taker)
3. Normal

We all want to fall into the normal category, category 2 is not optimal but can be recovered. Category 1 is a complete balls up. A girl would rather bang herself with a carrot than go to a NEEDY GUYS HOUSE!

When I invite a young lady to my place I make it sound as much as a side thought as possible….and I normally ask them late in the day (on the day I want them to cum- pun intended…. NIIIICE!!!!)

**If it is her who calls you, you might as well call the opposition and tell them the game is off because you got her!GAME OVER.

A few things should be in place.

1) Firstly you need to know that they have no plans the night

2) She must want to see you.

3) She is attracted to you

Things that will make it easier.

1) Inviting her over the phone:  It is easier for her to back out over text, than over a phone call.Over the phone you can build attraction and control the conversation.

2) Be chilled! (CCC) It doesnt matter to you if she comes or not. Never act needy! ITS UNATTRACTIVE!

Give her a reason to come (even if its your finger)

eg…. “I’ve just played a soccer match, think Im just gonna chill tonight (pause)…. maybe watch a DVD…. (pause) why dont you come over”

OR

“Had a long day, just gonna whip myself up some dinner and have an early night- (pause- as if its an after thought) If you haven’t had dinner come join me… Im cooking anyway”

Or last tactic….get her to meet you for drinks at your favorite place that is 2 minutes away from your place (for me its a ARTy cocktail bar just down the road from me), I then chat about something interesting at my house that makes her want to come and see it (for me its my art- girls always wanna see the stuff I paint)…..

Girls want to come home with you!!!!…. you just got to help THEM CONVINCE THEMSELVES that they ARE NOT SLUTS!

Till next time

Baron Bloom!!!

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So, I did some research on all the stories that made the front page of various BLOGs and seduction forums in the past year and have come to the conclusion that there is so much B-S, it makes manure look normal:

This leads me to:

The 10 things I really hate about wanna be mPUAs

Hopefully, you will be able to stay clear of them before we all die because of global warming next year . . .

1. They can’t pick up girls: When out with a mPUA up should always feel like his success is just a 5 minutes away. Remember, the average aspiring PUA has the attention span of a gnat on crack unless he is seeing some dude about to score a Megan Fox look a like. PUA’s want the fast, easy, efficient demonstrations that will solve all their problems- like being a virgin for 30 years. Your Demonstration of Pick up must appeal to people with severe ADD or most people won’t watch your style – let alone Digg it.

*In the past year, I have met many mPUA’s.PUA’s who wouldn’t be able to pick up a Dollar Hooker, even if she hadn’t eaten for 3 days, had 4 bastard kids and was standing outside McDonalds .

2. Their Field Reports. Could their field reports be any more narcissistic? I think not. Their Field Reports like themselves so much that Paris Hilton looks about as humble as a Nun by comparison. People must be sitting at their computers going “OMG Look it’s a story about Some Dude on a journey through a club! That’s sooooooo cool! I’ll totally digg that!” Bonus points if you mention Baron/ SleepyCat!

* In the past year, stories mentioning Baron and/or SleepyCat have made people read on 77% of the time ~ True story.

3. Appeal to the Mystery fanboys. Did you hear from someone who knows someone who held Mysteries Coat while he did a magic trick? Well that’s front page Field Report Material all the way! Don’t know why, but if Mystery lets out a fart, aspiring mPUA’s can’t wait to comment on the rosy smell. Don’t get me wrong Mystery is good, but I cant handle his groupies. Im telling you, some guys probably wack off to him at night.

* Stories with Mystery always end and Start the same way.

4. Doom and Gloom about how Global Warming will destroy us all (burning rubber Theory)- Don’t wrote about it. Who cares if we only have real data that covers about 1/20,000,000 of the earth’s history? (unless you’re a creationist, then it’s like 1/40th). Does it matter that world’s best meteorologists can’t even tell me if it’s going to rain tomorrow?

No!

PUA’s don’t really like to DO anything about global warming so don’t write about it, I would rather read about how some guy burnt rubber so much that there is a gigantic hole in the ozone because he had too much sex. They “feel” like they “did something” to “help mankind” just by reading about how some Dude just banged the day lights out some poor under aged teen.

5. Writing about how great Pick Up is. When it comes to writing about picking up a girl, no story is too lame, no “jargon” is too useless and no article can praise the art of Pick Up TOO MUCH. Sure, it’s just a freaking average day in our lives. Sure, it leaks self love faster than . . . umm . . . some kind of leaky thing leaking much faster than usual. Sure no one really needs to know – but who cares?!? Its Fun, Dig IT!

6. On Fake wanna be mPUA’s. Everything they do is because they are 100% evil/lame to the core. This REAL Axis of Evil delights in the clear-cutting of forests just for shits and giggles, the sadistic torture of children, and is right now plotting the Next 9/11 attack on America. These guys are worse! They claim to be the social kings, but in reality they wouldn’t be able to have a conversation with a war veteran without looking like a complete fuck nut. Im telling you nothing clears a room, Like an “mPua” who is both arrogant and weird. You will be found out when you cant deliver

7. Fake Field Reports. So what if 96.5% of all PUA’s tell the truth! It’s those dumb losers who ignore the guidelines, possibly because their parents didn’t hit them enough as kids, or other kids hit them because they had red hair and they’ve been the most consistent winner of the spelling bee for the last 7 years. The bottom line is that when they lie people assume everyone else lies too!

8. They make up outrageous statistics that they have not researched. They State their opinions as fact. Sure, they might get vetted by some geek who has nothing better to do, but that probably won’t happen until they’ve already made themselves famous. (Did you know: Blondes are 2 times more likely to kiss close within 5 minutes than brunettes, but are 2 times as slow as red heads- go figure )

9. They are social retards. Most PUA/mPUA’s have brain washed themselves with so much material that the can not have a normal conversation with a normal person. Come on Guys, Don’t try ask my normal friends to try imagine a Cube in some Baron dessert. There have been countless occasions where I have almost poes-slapped some little shit for running material on my girl/ OR Friends. Nothing like AMOGing a guy by High Five’ing his face!

10. Don’t make lame requests: People are not gonna polish your shoes if they haven’t seen you in action. Build some credibility. People will naturally follow you, don’t push it.

Till next time.

AND REMEMBER- KEEP it REAL!!!!!

Peace

-Baron

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Neg Her! "you probably get this a lot- but .... (pause) where do you do your shopping?

What is a NEG- Well its an idea developed by Mystery. Its supposed to be something you say to an ATTRACTIVE girl (side note- NEGS are ment for attractive secure girls), that throws her off guard. Mystery uses ones like “I love your dress I saw another girl wearing it outside” or “Nice hair, looks a little greasy”

I not a big fan of those…. but I’ve even heard worse….. my one buddy asked a girl “You look like you have a carrot up your Ass“, another guy made a statement to a girl we had just met ” you have an ass like a 10 year old” (that definitely didnt work-) HA HA HA…. (but lets just say this GUY is a mPUA since then- so credit to him)

In my personal opionion the perfect NEG should be more like a tease. its not what you say as much as it is about how you say it.

For example:  Being CCC (cool calm and confident) Leaning back and in the middle of the convo, ask the girl “do you go to gym?”

The thoughts going through her mind are…..

• Does this guy think I gym (positive thought)
• Does this guy think I need to gym (NEGative thought- dam i just figured where the word NEG comes from)
• Is he being sensere
• Is he teasing me

Now you have hooked her, whatever you do dont explain what you ment- u have to power dont give it away.

Now picture saying do you gym but using needy body language and saying it in a boring way.

She is just gonna think you are thinking

• This guy thinks I gym….
• This guy is TRYING to be charming

Bottom line is: YOU HAVE MADE her the prize! DONT MAKE HER THE PRIZE MAKE YOU THE PRIZE. There is a reason why people run marathons and play sport, its cause its a challenge. Why do something IF YOU DONT WANT TO WIN!

So you see in method one… you make an open ended statement but you dont back it up, People like to understand things but dont let her get in your head. Guard whats in your head (your thoughts and feelings) and it will go a long way! IT WILL MAKE YOU MYSTERIOUS and ALOOF… which is very attractive to girls.

10 Points to a NEG:

1. Deliver it confidently.
2. Dont Insult her.
3. Follow though a neg (dont explain it- dont water it down)
4. Do it in a teasing way.
5. Be relaxed, let it follow the conversation.
6. Make your statement Ambiguous. (she must wonder if you just complimented her/insulted her/teased her)
7. Dont be too quick to fill the conersation in after the NEG, give her time to absorb it and think about it…. create a vacum, so that she has to think and fill in the silence.
8. Dont NEG too soon, especially dont NEG to open.
9. Dont NEG UGLY even average girls, they are already way too insecure… they will think you are a jerk.
10. REMEMBER the CCC

Later

Baron

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Too many guys, especially those trying to meet their perfect girl are Nice guys… in a sense they keep trying to pull a girl towards them, by buying them stuff, calling them all the time…. which in fact pushes the girl away.

Then these guys pick up “The Game” (a book about picking up girls by Neil Strauss- A famous Pick Up Artist) and read how to play hard to get and learn how to neg a girl (Insulting her to throw her off guard). What happens next is that they completely over compensate and keep pushing the girl away. This does no one any good.

Getting Higher Value With Girls
Its commonly known that to pick up a girl you have got to have a higher value in her eyes…
So there are 3 methods to do this

1) Bring her down to below your level (negs etc)
2) Raise your level above hers
3) Raise her level, but raise your level slightly above hers.

I like method 3- Because quality girls are attracted to it. This is not a routine and its not something you can be taught… it comes from social awareness.

To have sex with a girl, you have got to make her feel like a lady… you need to make her feel a feeling of warmth and sexuality… this comes from being charming and confident, not from routines.

What is Push – Pull and How Will It Get Her Into Your Bed?Push pull is whereby you emotionally push her away then emotionally pull her back, like a yoyo!!!!

It comes down to pushing her away a little and pulling her back when she does something you like. Think 2 steps forward 1 step back. There are so many analogies… if u give a dog a biscuit then take the biscuit away more than once the dog will keep following you around. If the dog sits, reward it, next time it will sit, no problem.

(I am by no means calling girls dogs! …but you get the picture: reward good behavior – girls are just as clueless as anyone else, they need to know what you like and accept.)

Next time you are with a girl seduce her, think Casanova (watch the movie)…. give them a hard time but at the same time have an underlying message that you want to pleasure them and you just can’t help your instincts….

If you take anything away from this: treat her like a real woman and she will respond like one.

In our next article we’ll cover HOW to reward your soon-to-be Cinderella (and stop her turning into one of the cruel sisters)

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