Been a while since I posted. That’s partly because I’ve been focussing on developing other new businesses and been getting super excited about life, and partly because I am busy building a super-awesome space shuttle that will take me not just to the moon, but actually to set up an orgy camp on the moon!

Meanwhile, NASA is still busy struggling to approach women here on earth. Watch this video and weep:

NASA Scientists Plan To Approach Girl By 2018

Now, if you take ANYTHING out of that video, apart from that that is some funny shit worth waiting for, I hope you realise that OVERTHINKING and EXCESSIVE PLANNING will kill your dating life.

Sure, you have to have some idea of what you’ll say. But you can’t plan your way to success — not if you want to become a better man doing this.

Real success in this area of your life comes from realising that you have a problem. It’s not that you’re not getting laid, the problem is that you’re not communicating right and so you’re not getting the right results.

If you want the right results, you have to learn to communicate right — and there’s no magic cure for that. You’ll get some sneaky tips we’ve learnt over the years in our newsletter, and if you’re lucky we might take you on a workshop.

BUT the real magic comes in JUST DOING SOMETHING. Just TRY talking to a couple of girls today – you probably won’t get laid, but you’re going to be building up a skillset that WILL get you laid, and actually moreover, make you a happier person. Be patient, and strategic and learn to be self-aware, and learn the sneaky tricks.

It all happens out there in the field. Go check it out and tell me how you do.

Take a step towards your goals for attracting women. Do something.

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This is just the tip of the iceberg. Communication of course is how we talk to other people, right? Now think about this 70% of our day-to-day (night-to-night) communication is done in a way where you don’t have to speak at all?  That’s right.  The majority of what we communicate doesn’t even come from our mouths! 10% is what you say, 20% percent is how you say it, what is the other 70%?

This 70% of communication is called body language.  Even when we aren’t talking, we are always sending off these ‘signals’ that other people, women especially, pick up subconsciously. (It is important that you learn to read body language and learn how to send out the right body language) 

If you see someone walking with their hands in their pockets and their head down, will you be more likely to approach this person?  Or would you be more likely to approach a person with their head up and shoulders thrown back?  This is my point exactly.

There are 2 aspects to Body language

1. Giving off positive Body Language (Part1)
2. Being able to read body Language (Part 2)

(This article is an introduction to body language in general. Keep an eye out for part 2 in later articles. We will describe How to read her body language to see her intent, and find the right moment to kiss her.)

The greatest thing about modifying your body language is that the results are almost instant- people can see the difference.  From the moment you start using them you start feeling better about yourself and people will be more likely to approach you.  Try this, take a walk down the street and do the following: Pull you shoulders back, lift your chin slightly with your chest up, now imagine that there is a string tied around your waist and you are being pulled along by that string. Do it now…….. and then keep reading!

Ok You’re back- How did you feel? I bet you felt confident and good about yourself- I bet you even had a little smirk on your face while you did it. If you had to ask someone who saw you walk past I bet they would say you looked confident, not to mention cool and calm.

The other great thing about body language is the changes are small and subtle, but they can be tricky to use them all the time but through effort and practice you WILL become a natural. What does this mean, it means that initially it takes work but eventually you will do it without thinking about it. (Even your muscles in your shoulders and back get used to walking up straight. Note: Going to Gym and working you’re back and shoulders make a huge change to your posture.)

Let’s talk about the 10 body language secrets that I personally use to help me attract women- they work all the time- In Business and Pick Up:

1. Cool- Don’t Move too much – Being cool is someone who is not fazed by the outside world. Think about someone who is fidgety and jerky- they come across as insecure- not cool.  Confident men who are successful with women make very controlled movements- think about how James Bond acts.  He always walks slowly and only makes controlled movements- unless he is chasing some Nigerian from roof top-to-roof top (what an awesome scene- for the first movie).  You will never see a confident man with restless leg syndrome or fidgeting with their fingers.  By slowing down your movement you are presenting to the rest of the world a more “comfortable” version of yourself and it makes you that much more approach-friendly.
2. Calm- Lean Back and Relax – When you are sitting up or in any sort of position that isn’t standing up, lay back and relax- Girls love a guy who looks relaxed in his own skin. I love to sit on the back of a chair while I am talking to a girl (plus I’m tall so it puts me at her level), or when I’m at the bar- I lean back and put my elbow on the bar counter with my one foot over the other).  If there is nothing else to lean on let your arms hang down at your sides, and make yourself as comfortable as you possibly can. The best part about leaning back is that it makes the girl lean in (especially in a club with loud music) if she is leaning in you are already 50% there when you go in for the kiss.
3. Confident – In any situation be spacious, always take up as much space as possible- it makes you look confident.  If you’re sitting in a couch, lean back and kick your legs out.  This is a “territorial” thing that all people notice subconsciously. People will think this guy is not afraid to take the lead.  If people see you taking up this space they will automatically assume you to be the alpha male (Alpha make is the male that all the girls are attracted to) in the room and that you are the one who is the most laid back and fun!
4. Winking- If a girl says something that is far fetched- give her an exaggerated wink and say “of course” or “sure” in a very sarcastic way. 9 times out of 10 she will laugh and affectionately hit you on the arm (which is a massive SOI- Signal of interest)
5. Shielding yourself- Shy guys have a tendency of “shielding” themselves from other people by sitting forward with their arms folded.  Don’t do this as it makes you look closed off.  Relax!  Be cool. You want to be seen as the Alpha Male but still as approachable.
6. Raising your Eyebrows- This is fairly complicated to do and time appropriately, but if a girl says something dodgy or stupid- just pause, and raise you eyebrows. But say nothing- this will create an awkward moment for her.
7. Walking Posture – People notice you when you walk, I had a professor that always looked at his feet, he was the nicest man alive- but if you didn’t know him, you would think he was ashamed to be alive.  If you walk with your head down with your hands in your pocket you will look completely unapproachable and insecure. Walk as if you mean it, back straight, with your head tilted up just a bit.  Stick your chest out and bring your shoulders back. (like I demonstrated earlier)  This shows women what they are most attracted too, confidence.  Take a look at any millionaire, Rockstar, or celebrity.  They always walk this way and it’s because they are confident with themselves.  Guys who you should look out for is Brad Pitt and George Clooney. Those 2 have the best body language out of anyone.
8. Open Yourself – When you are approaching women stand or sit with your palms slightly exposed with your arms at your sides and with your legs shoulder width apart (or out in front of you if you are sitting).  Don’t ever cross your arms or your legs as this is a signal for being “closed” off.  You always want to come across as friendly, and not dangerous… showing people your palms reassures them.
9. Add some Indifference – You never want to show too much emotion at any given time- because you want to keep girls guessing what you are thinking, this makes you seem as if you aren’t in control of your life or your situation. Girls love to get in your head; don’t let them get in there.
10. Smiling- Don’t smile too much. Most Guys walk straight up to a girl and crack this huge goofy ass smile. She has done nothing to deserve this smile- so don’t give her one yet…. Keep chatting and if she says something cool like “I race sports car” then smile because now she deserves it. So many Girls have told me guys smile too much when they have done nothing to deserve the smile.

If you can master each one of those body language principles then you will be in a completely different league with women then anyone you know.

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I’d love to read your comments and thoughts on body language- so drop me a line and I’ll respond ASAP!

-Peace

Baron

P.S >>>>>>

1- What’s your biggest body language sticking point?

2- Do you have a plan to correct it? If so, what?

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Almost every pickup “guru” or coach will tell you the same thing: you need to be something different to be a PUA. They won’t say it like this, but what they really mean is: “You’re not good enough as yourself, please be something else.”

Be talkative (Mystery), be hypnotic / use the right patterns (Ross Jefferies), use the right routines, plow through, etc.

(Please comment with the catch-lines of gurus you know of)

I’m not saying they’re wrong. But what if you’re not talkative? Or hypnotic? Or someone who like plowing through?

1. Please try their tactics anyway. Why?
   – These guys are famous in the seduction world for one reason: what they do works, and it works for a lot of people too. It could work for you.
   – Until you’ve done it 20-30 times, you honestly don’t even really know what it’s about.
   – When you stretch yourself by doing something you’re not comfortable with, you grow! (IMHO it’s the only time you truly do – you can read as much as you like about trying to AMOG me / Baron / any of these dudes, but until you come face-to-face with a dude in the field you’re really just having a little mind-wank). E.g. I love Tony Robbins, apart from being one of the world’s greatest communicators, he has an amazing way of using his voice to create frames. So what did I do? I spent 3 months playing with my voice, talking super-deep, cross-pitching to super-high, etc. I’m not saying you should do it, but after those embarrassing 3 months I came out on the other side understanding vocal tone, and unconsciously telling much better stories because of it.
   – The core of any good pick-up artist is knowing who you are, and how you communicate best. You don’t know until you test what that is.

   
   

   
   

2. Now knowing yourself, well, as well as you do, what are you like? When are you insanely great, or funny, or cool? Who are you with?
   – If you’re really serious about this, please take the time to go and write down a list like that
   – Next, work out how you act in those situations – what kind of body language do you have? What tone? What kind of words do you use – super slang, or clean language..? Remember, there are no wrong answers here – you are yourself, and when you are at your best your gurus might be at their worst and vice-versa.

The key then (for today) is to begin to look inside and work out what makes you great in those situations. If you think you suck all the time, you’re not looking hard enough. You might not be Johnny Depp in charm, but you’ve got something in some situations. Our job is to work out what that is and grow it, and expose it, and ultimately use it to get you a harem of hotties.

I’ll Tell You A Secret

I’m not like my gurus.

In fact, I’m dead-set different to most of the guys who taught me, and even a lot of guys who are conventionally great with girls. Do I get laid? Fuck yes. Do girls and people love me? (All right let’s forgive my arrogance a moment – do they relate well to me?) Damn straight. I dare say, better than a lot of these guys.

It’s not because I’m better than they are. You won’t beat these guys at their own game, if you’re trying to get a girl by acting like a jock you’re going to lose! Sure, there are great AMOG tactics you can use and throw in, but if you build your game by trying to model their body-language, their ways of speaking, ways of PU, you’ll improve, but they’ll always beat you. Because it’s theirs, and you’re not being real.

Seduction For Introverts

You don’t need to be a keyboard jockey sitting on My-Twit-Face to pick up girls if you’re an introvert (having said that, I think the community’s aversion to technology is a little bit Luddite – look it up. If it works, it works, right?). But you do need to learn how to pick up girls AS YOURSELF. Not a mini-Mystery, or a David-Blaine wannabe.

I’m shy naturally. Of course, I’ve worked off a lot of that over 10 years and 7 or 8 000 approaches. But I’ve leveraged it to my advantage.

See, girls love a challenge too. If you’re cocky and funny and interesting, but at the same time you kind of step back from their attentions they love it. I walk in and own the group, and then when I come to talking to them I act all bashful, I exaggerate it and get all cutesy.

It’s funny, and it works super well because I’ve spent the time to connect my natural self and my natural strengths with female psychology.

And I think that’s at the very heart of seduction, and becoming a better man. If you’d like to get our Member’s only newsletter where we work through the nitty gritty of blow-by-blow techniques to doing that, please sign up on the side bar. But the point I hope you take away from today is simply this:

The World Doesn’t Need Another David Blaine. It Needs You.

Please comment and show me you’re alive! Or I will be forced to set a room of kittens on hunger-strike by gluing their paws to a vinyl floor.

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We live in whatever reality we put ourselves in. It’s kind of surreal. Most people live in this world were they are so worried about what other people think, that they live in this alternate universe created but the thoughts and ideas that they think other people have. It’s a bit of a mind twister… but living in a world that we think girls want, completely ruins the chances of us meeting someone we actually wanna be with.

If you think about it, people are so busy trying to run around and portray this image that they think people want to see, that we are effectively living as a bunch of robots chained to societies thoughts and ideals. Attractive girls are so tired of being put in this box- the sooner you learn to stop putting them in the box, the sooner you will have hundreds of girls chasing you- and possibly the one you want to end up with!

Here is the great part. If you can create your own world with your own ideals and opinions that are so strong people will be completely compelled and attracted to you- (I will cover how to do this this in a later article). You could be the center of their universe purely because you are able to take them out of their boring mundane lives.

This is why so many people guys and girls flock to cults…. Because it offers something that normal life doesn’t. You’ll find certain guys dont just get get one girl that get tons of girls. The old saying “when it rains it pours” – Could not be more true! YOU could REDEFINE THEIR REALITY…. No matter how illogical it seems to a normal person, to them they are so engulfed in the idea that they become COMPLETELY blinded by this new reality.

This is especially true with girls. If you can build enough attraction, a girl will be willing to do almost anything you want… as long as you are completely confident and comfortable about yourself and your standards.

DONT CHASE SKIRT! Let the skirt chase you. Act like someone who has an abundance of woman…. even if you have to- “Fake it till you make it”.

Cheers
Baron

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