There is a book written by Neil Strauss called “The Rules of The Game” This is more a challenge to become a better Pick Up Artist- than anything else. Personally I read the first 10 Days and got bored doing dumb tasks like talking in the mirror and recording myself. LAME!  

So I decided to put together my own kind of “rules of the game” except they are real rules, that willl actually help you. In the Book I’m currently writing (a book on Dating and attraction) and I have summarized some of the Key Principals to creating attraction within a girl. With a special section called: Barons Rules for Getting the Girl of your Dreams. 

These are a few of Barons rules to create attraction!

• Don’t Be Desperate.  There is no attraction killer like desperation. NO MATTER HOW SWEET YOU ARE- If you are desperate. You will never get laid, unless it is by a $1 Hooker. For example- Don’t buy a girl flowers until you are either dating her/ sleeping with her. If you do it before then- It will come across as you are trying to hard and trying to buy her love.
• Take her out with your friends. Especially when you just meet her. Your Friends are people that love you, and will higher your social value.
• Have fun, people like being around people that have fun.
• Don’t be afraid to offend a girl. (I’m not talking about insults/negs here)  People respect you for having your own opinion.
• If a girl wants to see you she will make the effort, don’t chase lost causes.  If you ask her out and she um’s and ah’s. Leave her; she is not worth the effort.
• The more you show a girl you don’t need her the more she will want you.  Be independent, most guys come across as so needy. Have your own life and she will want to be apart of it.
• Be hard to read. When you first meet a girl NEVER let a girl know what’s going on in your mind. This drives a girl crazy (in a good way). Being the strong silent type can go a long way.
• Be laid back…  CCC (Cool Calm Confident) it’s important to have good body Language and to be relaxed. There is nothing more unattractive to a girl than a guy who looks nervous or unsettled.
• Never show jealousy.  This is a hard one- but girls test guys by trying to make them jealous. Its Important to realize that they are doing it for a reaction. If you don’t give her the reaction she wants it will drive her crazy! 
• Don’t be predictable. SMS or call her ONLY when she doesn’t expect it. If a girl knows for certain that you are going to text/sms her everyday she will get bored. Rather let her wonder why you aren’t contacting her.
• Be confident with whatever you want… if you want her to come to your house don’t be shy. If you are confident she will be comfortable/
• Be a gentleman (girls love this) Open car doors, pull out her chair, give her your coat, etc.
• Body Language makes the world of difference. If you lean in too much- she will get the idea that you are chasing her, rather lean back and draw her into you.

You don’t want to sit and memorize these rules, but the main Idea behind them is that you need to build your own reality. It’s ok to be a man and know what you want. Girls will respect it.

Peace

Baron Bloom

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