Some Guys JUST Dont know how to use a NEG!!!
They have this idea in their heads that NEG = Insult. Translation: If i insult a girl she is gonna drop her panties cause she wants me so bad. Sorry. NOT. Gonna. HAPPEN!
Neg Her! "you probably get this a lot- but .... (pause) where do you do your shopping?
What is a NEG- Well its an idea developed by Mystery. Its supposed to be something you say to an ATTRACTIVE girl (side note- NEGS are ment for attractive secure girls), that throws her off guard. Mystery uses ones like “I love your dress I saw another girl wearing it outside” or “Nice hair, looks a little greasy”
I not a big fan of those…. but I’ve even heard worse….. my one buddy asked a girl “You look like you have a carrot up your Ass“, another guy made a statement to a girl we had just met ” you have an ass like a 10 year old” (that definitely didnt work-) HA HA HA…. (but lets just say this GUY is a mPUA since then- so credit to him)
In my personal opionion the perfect NEG should be more like a tease. its not what you say as much as it is about how you say it.
For example: Being CCC (cool calm and confident) Leaning back and in the middle of the convo, ask the girl “do you go to gym?”
The thoughts going through her mind are…..
- Does this guy think I gym (positive thought)
- Does this guy think I need to gym (NEGative thought- dam i just figured where the word NEG comes from)
- Is he being sensere
- Is he teasing me
Now you have hooked her, whatever you do dont explain what you ment- u have to power dont give it away.
Now picture saying do you gym but using needy body language and saying it in a boring way.
She is just gonna think you are thinking
- This guy thinks I gym….
- This guy is TRYING to be charming
Bottom line is: YOU HAVE MADE her the prize! DONT MAKE HER THE PRIZE MAKE YOU THE PRIZE. There is a reason why people run marathons and play sport, its cause its a challenge. Why do something IF YOU DONT WANT TO WIN!
So you see in method one… you make an open ended statement but you dont back it up, People like to understand things but dont let her get in your head. Guard whats in your head (your thoughts and feelings) and it will go a long way! IT WILL MAKE YOU MYSTERIOUS and ALOOF… which is very attractive to girls.
10 Points to a NEG:
- Deliver it confidently.
- Dont Insult her.
- Follow though a neg (dont explain it- dont water it down)
- Do it in a teasing way.
- Be relaxed, let it follow the conversation.
- Make your statement Ambiguous. (she must wonder if you just complimented her/insulted her/teased her)
- Dont be too quick to fill the conersation in after the NEG, give her time to absorb it and think about it…. create a vacum, so that she has to think and fill in the silence.
- Dont NEG too soon, especially dont NEG to open.
- Dont NEG UGLY even average girls, they are already way too insecure… they will think you are a jerk.
- REMEMBER the CCC
Later
Baron
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